The waiter works at the Yu Jin Yuan Private Kitchen where the dinner party takes place. When Li Mai steps out of the private room crying, this waiter notices her and gives her a strange look. He is a minor character who appears only for a moment, yet his action underlines Li Mai’s vulnerable state and the public nature of her distress. He represents the anonymous staff in upscale venues and the fact that even her most private moments are observed. His brief appearance adds a touch of realism to the scene, emphasizing Li Mai’s isolation and shame.