The part where Jiang Li describes the Zhao family situation so sarcastically to Jiang Nian is brutal but fair. She’s like, your mom is a housewife, your dad likes to drink, your brother needs tuition. You're a big star, they'll rely on you. Meanwhile, when I go back, I get called a glutton for drinking milk. It’s such a raw contrast of class and family affection. She’s not just venting; she’s pointing out that Jiang Nian's "suffering" is losing luxury, while she was losing basic human dignity.